Whether you have graduated from college or grad school, you still feel the same mixtures of emotions - nervousness, uncertainty, happiness, indifferent, confused, you name it. While some continue to pursue a higher level of education, many find themselves on the midst of entering the scariest of the scariest of both worlds - The Real World.
While, I, myself recently graduated from grad school, I had my fair taste of the real world from practicing my career. I don’t have a first impression of it, but I’ve had many first impressions of it. I can certainly tell you it is not fun and games. No matter what field you engage in, you find yourself learning to develop a thick skin. You’ll receive criticism, or luckily … compliments. Don’t be scared though. Everyone all started at some point and you will too. Everything happens within time and patience.
It’s okay to make mistakes because you are not perfect but once you find yourself doing a task you feel so passionately about frequently, you gradually excel at it without you even noticing it. My biggest tip I always tell young grads on how to survive this scary world is simply this - as long as you are genuinely and strongly passionate and enthusiastic about your field/career, that’s all it takes. If you like something enough, you will do well in it and even put your all into it. No greater work ethic is better than that.
I wanted to give 10 tips to those young grads on how to tackle this world. I hope many of you will take these into consideration for these tips are something I’ve learned personally from my experience with the real world and tips from large, successful, famous individuals.
- Don’t get down when your life takes a bad turn. Out of adversity comes challenge and often success.
- Don’t brag about yourself. Let others point out your virtues, your strong points.
- As you succeed, be kind to people. Thank those who help you along the way.
- You create opportunities by performing, not complaining.
- Be modest but self-assured.
- Surround yourself with people who are smarter than you. The smarter the people, the more you can accomplish.
- Be passionate about whatever you do. Care intently about your work and feel personally accountable.
- You can always learn from older, wise heads who have years of experience. Age brings wisdom-not always, but often.
- Like what you do. If you don’t, get out of it. Don’t waste anyone’s time.
- Be fair-minded, open-minded but also learn to be skeptical. It’s a cruel world out there and not everyone is going to be as honest as you - develop your own thick skin.
- Your reputation and integrity are everything. Follow through on what you say you’re going to do.
- Dress and act for the position you aspire to have
- All about attitude- be motivating, self-confident, optimistic, hardworking and empower others to do their best
- Handle all criticism in a professional and calm manner - take it as constructive criticism and aim to do better each time.
- Last, but not least - make sure you’re having fun while doing your job. If you’re not happy doing your job, something’s wrong. Happiness is everything.